Show your love

* Show your concern by asking about the activities that your wife has done during the day
* Be a good listener to your wife.
* Provide at least 30 minutes of quality attention to your wife.
* Give the flowers, perfume or the like as a gift when she is angry.
* Cook or bring her out for breakfast/lunch/dinner out once in a while.
* Give praise the appearance to your wife (hair, face, clothing, etc.).
* Provide assistance or cooperation. (house chores)
* Spend more time with your wife, especially if both of you hold full time jobs.
* If you know you will return late, tell your wife in advance or home phone.
* When you have a problem, share it with your wife , do not place blame.
* Tell your wife if you wish to be left alone.
* Give hugs and cuddles to your wife at least four times a day.
* Give your wife a call from work to inquire every once a while , even if it is just want to tell "I love you."
* Tell her you miss her when you are away .
* If you are out of the country, call your wife everyday to let her know that you are okay.
* Always go to bed at the same time.
* Massage the back your wife once in a while.
* Hug your wife occasionally without sexual implications.
* Be patience when listening to your wife's stories and problems.
* Do not walk miles apart when you are out together. When out walking , it is good to hold hands
* Occasionally make a cup of coffee/tea/hot chocolate for your wife.
* If you wife is unwell, give her the appropriate attention.
* Pamper your wife once a while.
*Give your wife a hug before going to work.

Basically it is not rocket science. It is not us asking for mountains to be moved. The gifts and treats are not that important - just a few minutes of attention in a day is all what a woman need.

Telling someone you care doesn't mean spending an obscene amount of money. Being taken for granted is a terrible feeling and why would you do that to someone that you love?

If you can't be appreciative to your wife , don't expect to receive mint treatment from her. Women do things around the house not because for fun it's because that's how women show their love - they want their husbands to have a clean and in order home, cooking meals everyday means women want their husbands to eat good meals - women don't do this just because it is (assumed ) her 'job'.

If a man wanted someone to run around for them - then get a maid not a wife.

A marriage is a give and take situation, one party can't always take without giving. There must be a balance. If a man can't show a little appreciation, then DON'T get married. Women don't get married to be a 'free' maid, women don't get married to get more heartache and women certainly don't get married to feel less loved.

It is all ABOUT sharing.

Sharing your love and life together.